Women know when a man is getting female attention. Of course we can all agree to that when we see with out own eyes. A man at a party or in a public setting is receiving positive interest from a woman. The other women see this and immediately the rationalization hamster starts spinning. “What’s he got? What makes him so special? Why isn’t he giving me attention?
But how do they know such things when the man is receiving attention via an online dating website? How do they know he’s been on a good date with strong potential for more?
I had a good date with the single mother last night. It was such a good date that we ended up in my bed, fooling around. We made plans to see each other today and go to the beach.
I awoke this morning to find four incoming messages in my Plenty of Fish account. Two were from women with whom I had almost given up so late were there responses. Two from completely new women.
It’s as if they had perceived across the ether that I was lying abed with a nicely attractive woman. How did they know? Frankly, I find this bizarre but this is not the first time this has happened. Even though I am working my system, I get no interest online if I’m not already actively corresponding or actually going on on dates. When the correspondence and dates happen, my response rate goes way up.
On another note, today’s date with the single mom meant I had to delay a potential date with surfer woman. I told her I would call at 5PM (via text) and didn’t manage a call until 6PM. I left a message and I doubt I will hear back any time this evening.
Oh, and single mom texted me (after more making out and fooling around in my bed after a nice day at the beach):
Her: You have me wanting you.
Me: I encourage that.
I do love Game.
Hughman
/ May 22, 2011Good effort PM!
Women are like buses for sure, you have none then half a dozen show up. Always the way.
Country Lawyer
/ May 22, 2011How small a community are you in?
Does your online presence show how long since you’ve been on or if you are online?
Those are two ways that people can engage your life.
A person with a life isn’t on as much.
The Private Man
/ May 22, 2011The overall metro area here is about 5 million.
Regardless, you are right about being online too much.
Perhaps by being offline on a Saturday night tells the story of my social life.
workshyjoe
/ May 25, 2011That’s it. They think “he must have a date” or something along those lines.
Guys who didn’t have a date might get the same result by just staying logged out for a few days.