Sue me. I am a pedantic man. I use big words. It’s my nature to be sesquipedalian. My advice here is thus – when a man is dating, he should shut up and let the damsel do the talking. Please, keep quiet. Your daring stories of fiduciary acumen are not exciting. Your stories of relationship [...]
All posts for the month February, 2011
Be Taciturn, Not Garrulous
Posted by theprivateman on February 27, 2011
http://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2011/02/27/be-taciturn-not-garrulous/
Describing The Feminine
There was a comment on one of the manosphere blogs where a girl expressed frustration that she didn’t know exactly what men consider feminine. I scanned a few blogs and didn’t find anything specific, just lots of ideas buried within larger essays. So I present a list of what this man sees as the feminine. [...]
Posted by theprivateman on February 24, 2011
http://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2011/02/24/describing-the-feminine/
Where Are The Men Online?
Imagine that you’re a marketing specialist and your job is to sell a new widget to men. It might be a fine widget and if you could find the men, they might buy the widget. Your boss tells you to find the men, sell this widget. Your boss gives you a big budget but not [...]
Posted by theprivateman on February 22, 2011
http://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2011/02/22/where-are-the-men-online/
Is This Thin?!?
I peruse profiles. It’s what I do. So, I find this profile of a 41 year old woman on Plenty of Fish. She describes herself in words thusly: I’m a bright, sexy, classy woman who is seeking someone special to enhance my already great life. I like to have fun and am equally up for [...]
Posted by theprivateman on February 21, 2011
http://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2011/02/21/is-this-thin/
Mom Was Wrong – A Personal Narrative
“Be nice, be yourself” I remember those words well. I took them to heart for decades and it almost ruined me. Nice. I was supposed to be nice she told me. At the time, I really didn’t know exactly what “nice” meant. I just remember being an active young boy and when I got to [...]
Posted by theprivateman on February 21, 2011
http://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2011/02/21/mom-was-wrong-a-personal-narrative/
A Confession
I really do want to see men and women in intimate and satisfying relationships. While the marriage contract is a terrible business arrangement, men and women can be committed to each other, regardless, and be very happy. I want men and women to actually respect each other in the context of intimate relationships. I find [...]
Posted by theprivateman on February 20, 2011
http://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2011/02/20/a-confession/
For Entitlement Princesses Over 45 Seeking an Intimate Relationship With a Man…
You have six choices. 1. Lower your standards and accept that your vajajay is no longer what determines your decisions regarding men. Beta men will love you for that. By the way, this means you must keep a man happy… lulz, what about teh menz! 2. Join the harem of an alpha man. The more [...]
Posted by theprivateman on February 20, 2011
http://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2011/02/20/for-entitlement-princesses-over-45-seeking-an-intimate-relationship-with-a-man/
Beware the Fake Online Dating Profile!
Fake profiles are the minefield of online dating. Does the photo look too good? Is there only one photo? Do the words seem generic and written by the Online Dating Profile Robot? Does a woman in North Dakota like long walks on the beach? It could be a fake profile. There are scammers, pranksters, and [...]
Posted by theprivateman on February 19, 2011
http://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2011/02/19/beware-the-fake-online-dating-profile/
Rules for Single Women
I stumbled across this and thought it might make for some good reading. Most women will hate it. Thoughtful, intelligent, and introspective women will laugh wryly at the truths contained in this list. It’s a long list. Share it with a link, please. If you think all men are pigs, expect to live alone when [...]
Posted by theprivateman on February 18, 2011
http://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2011/02/18/rules-for-single-women/
Guys – Got an Interesting Online Dating Story?
Got an interesting (good, bad, whatever) online dating story to share? Post it here. Sorry ladies, this is manspace only. I will delete your stories.
Posted by theprivateman on February 18, 2011
http://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2011/02/18/guys-got-an-interesting-online-dating-story/
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